Why can girls be Immature and jerks for?

WHY? I just fon't understand? Like for example, they paint guy's nails while their sleeping or talk them Into wearing a mini skirt or a dress, this Is just Immature! This also just show's how girls can be jerks damn! A REAL secure guy would stand up for himself, ( Don't say a REAL secure guy can be feminine, because If a guy Is feminine he Is gay, If he Is straight he has to be masculine, no question about this!) This happen to me not too long ago, my bestest closest friend painted my toenails red while I was sleeping, and a week before that she wanted me to wear a denim mini skirt, but I yelled so loud and cussed her out so bad she cried, and now after those Incidents we never talk anymore. Girl's just need to mind their own business, and leave guys the hell alone and don't mess with their manhood or try to make us gay! I'm just a little confused to be honest, and some feedback, opinions, or suggestions would be great, thanks!